No One Can Weave a Better Story than God

About this time last year Michael and I decided that we would start pursuing adoption. After the New Year we put out a couple of feelers and requested information from several different adoption agencies. Catholic Social Services of Montana was an easy pick for us - they responded so quickly and with so much information and excitement. We started filling out the application forms they sent us and got them turned back in at the beginning of March. A couple of weeks later we received an invitation to attend their adoption workshop at the end of April. Some other things in our lives were pretty turbulent at that time, but God gave us a peace about pursuing this. We were even more excited and sure when we left the workshop. We gave ourselves until July to fill out all of our paperwork. Then, at the end of May, Michael resigned his pastoral position. This was a really hard time and made it especially hard for Michael to do the soul-searching and self-evaluation that was required for filling out all of the adoption paperwork. During this time God had to constantly remind me against striving - working hard, becoming anxious, nagging Michael to finish his stuff - none of those things were going to make a difference in our adoption because the whole thing was in His hands. Finishing sooner, finishing later - it wasn't going to make a difference because it would all happen in His timing - no matter what. After missing several other deadlines we set for ourselves, it was actually going to happen by Michael's birthday, Friday, November 6th. I usually have Wednesdays off from work, but that week I had jury duty on Tuesday so that was my day off. That meant that I was "randomly" at home on Tuesday afternoon when Barb called. (Barb is a neighbor who lives several miles north of us. We had gotten to know one of her daughters, Leah and Leah's husband Danny when they visited the church in Columbus. They only visited for a little while but we kept in touch and hung out every once in a while. We actually met Barb when she visited with them. We have hunted on their ranch a couple of times and Michael has gone up to help Danny and Barb's husband Al with ranch things a couple of times.) Barb told me that this phone call would be weird and then told me that another daughter (Amy) was pregnant and wanted us to adopt her baby! (Remember, this is 3 days before we mailed off the last of our application paperwork!) I didn't even know what to say! I gave her the number for Catholic Social Services and told her how wonderful they were. Michael and I must have held our breaths for days wondering if this would really be real. I had a rough day at work on Monday but when I got home Michael told me I needed to listen to our voice messages. Amy had left a message inviting me to come to her ultrasound appointment on Wednesday! I couldn't even believe it! It is one of the coolest things I have ever seen. I could see her (yes, she's a girl) heart beating (143 beats per minuet) and her spine and ribs, her hands and feet in constant motion. . . She was 20 weeks and 4 days, the technician said, and 13 oz. Her due date is 3/27/10. Amy and I went out to lunch afterward to get to know each other. She had told me on the phone that she hoped we liked music because she thinks the baby does. Music? Us? There are so many other details that I can't remember all at once and would just sound like babbling anyway. I thank you from a distance for all your excitement and prayers on our behalf. Here are some specific things you can be praying for: for Amy - it seems that she is far from the Lord and not interested in coming closer, for safety and health for Amy and our first little Lairdlette, for God's hand and will in all of this. Also, we still have to have our homestudy and be approved, but out social worker is so wonderful and keeps telling us that it won't be a big deal. Nothing can be officially official until 72 hours after she is born and Amy signs the papers. We know that nothing is too big for God and we believe that this baby will be our first, but we are also aware of our weakness as humans and that God's ways are not ours and what we consider to be a perfect ending may not be His plan for us. We are focused right now on getting approved, preparing for Baby and ministering to Amy. We appreciate your prayers, love and support. Stay tuned for more updates.